How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

In what ways does Bollywood represent India's culture to the rest of the world through movies, songs, and dance? Is this representation accurate?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why does a college girl cover her face with a scarf in Bangalore?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What caused the stock market to crash?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Making more friends is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Why in my 60s do I have a strong desire to suck cock and swallow?

Do not set goals—set systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why did the American's mulberry harbor not hold up after D-Day?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Is it ethical for same-sex couples to raise children?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Ask yourself:

What measures are shipping companies taking to navigate around conflict zones like the Red Sea and Black Sea?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What I need from you?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Do women lack the mental strength to succeed at STEM? There seems to be few women at STEM and more women leave STEM after a time of working at it. How can it be just sexism if women aren't banned from entering?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How do you like to be pegged?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

If I get served by someone else's papers, am I legally required to inform the person that they got served, or the court that they served the wrong person?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why do people always talk about Ohio as it's a dangerous city?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What is the irony of life according to you?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do you think some men have sex with prostitutes because they're too afraid to talk to women? Money does the talking for them.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

That's it for today.

How would you feel if your girlfriend had dick pics on her phone?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.